There is no real
way to tell why someone can react negatively to homosexuality. I have often
heard religion is the cause, but that isn’t always the case. Perhaps the biggest
reason is due to the lack of knowledge people have about it. Just think about
the 1960s and 1970s, when AIDS research started to become more prominent in the
media. People were freaking out because they thought homosexuality was a
disease and many people in the LGBTQ community were shunned and ignored by
society in fear of turning others homosexual. Lack of knowledge and
understanding has led to many issues in society and unfortunately that
continues to be the case with homosexuality today. No Outsiders attempts to
educate not only educators, but also parents, in how to approach the notion of
homosexuality to students. Their website, which can be found at http://www.esrc.ac.uk/my-esrc/grants/RES-062-23-0095/read,
explains the project in more details and includes full reports and summaries
compiled by the research teams.
Though You Should Know wrote an
article about a school system that was planning on teaching homosexuality in
sex education classes (http://www.tysknews.com/Depts/Educate/Homosexuality_in_Schools.htm).
One quote really stood out, a parent, who said "I am furious and
outraged that tax dollars are being spent to promote a lifestyle that if
embraced will cut our son's life in half”. In the articles I have read, it
often seems that the parents are the ones more concerned about their
children learning about sex and homosexuality than the students are. (This
could partly be due to the age group, seeing as some articles were concerning
elementary students.) AVERT submitted an article (http://www.avert.org/gay-school.htm)
that spoke about homosexuality in British school. The overall opinion for
helping students become more aware and comfortable with it however seems to lie
in simply educating the students who were homosexual in having safe sexual
relationships. Why they aren’t trying to educate the entire student body is
beyond me. A South Carolina college banned
homosexuality after two profiles of out gay volleyball players was released to
the public. (http://www.edgeboston.com/news/news//172641/sc_school_bans_homosexuality,_gay_athlete_speaks_out)
The fact that a school thinks they can ban something like this is outrageous.
Being a part of the LGBTQ community is not a lifestyle that one can choose.
People are born this way and you can’t ask someone to try to change themselves.
While it is nice to see that
some people who support the LGBTQ community are trying to educate about
homosexuality, it seems that not as much education is aimed towards society as
a whole but rather those that are part of the LBGTQ community. On the other
hand, there are people who refuse to accept the LBGTQ community and instead try
to change it, make it ‘normal’, and make it conform to their beliefs.
However there is a ray of hope
for the future. Religious Tolerance has an article that suggest positive ways
to discuss homosexuality in school (http://www.religioustolerance.org/homteach.htm)
such as positions held by various religious groups in order to understand not
only their positions on the matter but for students to better understand
treatment the LGBTQ community can face from these groups. HaierUp on YouTube
submitted a video in which being ‘Gay’ was the norm and being ‘Straight was
not’. ***I highly suggest watching the video because it gives an interesting
insight, putting you in the shoes of the treatment someone from the LGBTQ can
face from society, especially at school (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnOJgDW0gPI).
**** How does watching this video make you feel? Do you think you will treat
someone from the LGBTQ community any differently now than you did before after watching
the video?
TheFineBros uploaded another
video I highly suggest watching (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8TJxnYgP6D8).
In this video, children are shown videos that display same-sex couple and
we get to see their reactions. Some children are initially shocked because
they are not expecting it to be a couple that does not fit the usual “boy/girl”
relationship, but they are able to quickly move past that and accept the
couples and their actions. This specific video makes me excited for the future
because more and more children are accepting of homosexuality and since
children are our future, hopefully our future will be more tolerant of others.
I agree about your point that the biggest issue is the lack of knowledge people have about the LBGTQ community. Your example about how when the research came out about AIDS, people thought that homosexuality was a disease.It is like everything else in this world, what people hear on the news and media is true. They do not stop and think for themselves and educate themselves on something they have a strong opinion about for no reason.
ReplyDeleteI also added that video link in my blog! I think it is so powerful to see children's reactions to such a important subjects. Also I agree with you point that society needs to educate themselves more about homosexuality.
ReplyDeleteGood point about the extreme paranoia that people showed when the AIDS epidemic began. It's just a sign of the times that people still feel uncomfortable openly discussing sexual orientation in school.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with you ,about people being uneducated on the LGBT topic. Like you stated, some people use religion to cover up their true feelings.
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with you ,about people being uneducated on the LGBT topic. Like you stated, some people use religion to cover up their true feelings.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoy the various links that you have provided. I had previously seen the video where gay was normal and straight was not - it is something that is very moving and honestly hard to handle but I feel can be a wake up call for some people.
ReplyDeleteGreat blog, Maria! When people are uneducated about something such us, race; religion; sexual orientation, that ignorance usually leads to fear, hate, bigotry and all sorts of discrimination toward what they don't understand and or refuse to accept. Open discussions and Education on these topics must be a priority within the education system.
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